Thank you notes may be less common in our normal lives but etiquette is still a large part of weddings. Save yourself stress by preparing for thank you's along the way. There are two main divisions of wedding thank you's; pre-wedding and after-wedding. Starting with pre-wedding, keep an organized guest list (with full addresses) and keep it updated as gifts come in before the wedding. Although you are expected to send thank you's for all pre-wedding gifts (engagement party, bridal shower, etc.), the pre-wedding thank you's don't have to match the rest of the stationary and you can find great quality ones at Target, WalMart and A.C. Moore to name a few stores.
For after-wedding thank you's, start to think about the design. You will need to decide if you want to stay consistent with the rest of your wedding stationary; the invitations, programs, escort cards, menus, etc. If you do, order your thank you's with your other stationary to save on shipping two separate orders. Wedding Paper Divas posted recently with new ideas for thank you cards. If you think you may want to use your engagement or wedding photos, you may want to create a special "thank you" sign specifically for your after wedding thank you's cards. Let your photographer know ahead of time so you can discuss the expected timeline for getting back the professional photos. Speaking of vendors, it is always nice to sent a note letting your vendors know that your appreciate their hard work on your big day. And last but not least, make sure to order new return address labels for your newly married selves! Hope these tips help, enjoy!